Barbara Eden at 92: A Timeless Icon, a Painful Loss, and a Legacy That Lives On
Step aside, Aladdin! The legendary Barbara Eden, the woman who made the world believe in magic, celebrated her 92nd birthday on August 23, and the beloved actress continues to defy time.
Decades after charming audiences with her role as Jeannie in I Dream of Jeannie, Eden remains an adored figure in Hollywood. But behind the glitz and glamor of her illustrious career lies a painful personal tragedyâone that no amount of TV magic could undo. In 2001, she endured the greatest heartbreak of her life: the devastating loss of her only son, Matthew Ansara, to a heroin overdose.
From Humble Beginnings to Stardom
Barbara Edenâs journey to Hollywood began during one of the most challenging periods in American history. Born during the Great Depression, she transformed her humble beginnings into a life of luxury and success.
By 1956, she had begun her career in film (A Privateâs Affair, Twelve Hours to Kill) and television (The Johnny Carson Show, I Love Lucy), gradually working her way into the spotlight.
Her career reached new heights in 1960 when she starred opposite Elvis Presley in Flaming Star, a western that introduced her to international audiences.
But it was in 1965 that she secured her most iconic roleâplaying Jeannie, a mischievous yet lovable genie, in I Dream of Jeannie. Starring alongside Larry Hagman, who played astronaut and U.S. Air Force Captain Tony Nelson, Eden quickly became a household name. The show ran for five successful seasons and solidified her status as a television legend.
At the same time that she was captivating audiences as Jeannie, Eden was also navigating a significant milestone in her personal lifeâmotherhood.
A Motherâs Love: Raising Matthew Ansara
That same year, in 1965, Eden and her then-husband, actor Michael Ansara (Broken Arrow), welcomed their son, Matthew Ansara, into the world.
Although Eden and Ansaraâs marriage lasted 15 years, they ultimately divorced when Matthew was nine years old. Looking back, Eden believes that their separation had a profound impact on their son, setting him on a difficult and heartbreaking path toward drug addiction.
In an interview, she recalled the first warning signs that something was wrong.
âI first noticed Matthew was in trouble in 1984, when he moved in with his father after I remarried,â she explained. âWhen he came back home after my second divorce, he was sleeping all the time and lying about being enrolled in college.â
Matthew, who had started using drugs as young as ten years old, hid his addiction from his parents for years.
âMatthew never told Mike and me that he was using heroinâhe didnât want to hurt us,â she shared. âBut we figured it out. He was acting sluggish, losing weight, staying out all night. I insisted that he enter a rehab center, and I let him come back home when he came out a month later.â
Unfortunately, his struggles continued.
âThe professionals told us that if your child is using drugs, he has become the drug: He is no longer your child, and he no longer has a home with you,â she revealed. âSo, I locked him out when he was 20, which was the hardest thing I ever had to do.â
For the next 12 years, Matthew was in and out of rehab. Despite his struggles, his parents remained hopeful and tried to help him through his darkest times.
âWhen he visited us, sometimes heâd laugh and say, âHere I am, better lock up everything,ââ Eden recalled, admitting that he often stole from them to support his addiction. âBut when he was sober, heâd tell us, âIâm so sorry. I love you more than anyone in the world.ââ
A Battle Against Addiction
Matthewâs battle with addiction had moments of remission. At 27, he was married and studying creative writing at UCLA. But, as Eden painfully recalled, âthe cycle began again,â leading to his wife leaving him.
His struggles eventually led him to homelessness.
âOne day, soon after they separated, he called me, sounding half-dead, and said, âMom, Iâm sick.ââ
Eden rushed to find him, ultimately locating Matthew in a run-down Venice, California apartment.
âMikeâs wife and another friend drove with me to a bad part of Venice, and we found him in his apartment, unconscious from an overdose,â she remembered.
Describing the horrifying scene, she continued, âHe weighed 200 pounds, but we three women got him up and to the car and took him to the hospital, which saved his life.â
Despite his ongoing struggles, Matthew was later diagnosed with clinical depression at age 29 and was placed on medication, though Eden revealed that it was ineffective.
At 31, he appeared to be on the mend again, embracing sobriety and following in his parentsâ footsteps. He landed a starring role in To Protect and Serve (2001) and had a supporting role in Con Games, released posthumously.
He also planned to marry his fiancĂ©e, a woman Eden described as âwonderful.â
âOne day he told me, âLife is great, Mom. I canât believe I spent so many years not being awake to how green the trees are,ââ she recalled.
A Motherâs Worst Nightmare
But tragedy struck on June 26, 2001.
At 3 a.m., Eden was jolted awake by a devastating phone callâMatthew was gone.
Six hours earlier, police had discovered her 35-year-old son slumped over the steering wheel of his truck. He was an amateur bodybuilder, and authorities also found vials of anabolic steroids in the vehicle.
The autopsy later confirmed that Matthew had died from an accidental heroin overdose.
âThen he was dead. He had shot up with a dose of unusually pure heroin, and it was too much for his heart,â Eden shared. âEven when he was getting in shape, he did it like an addictâobsessively. He was unable to do anything in moderation.â
Grief and Reflection
Still mourning the loss of her only child, Eden, now married to Jon Eicholtz since 1991, continues to reflect on what went wrong.
âMatthew took it horribly. He wanted his mommy and daddy to stay together,â she said, admitting that she has wondered if she should have waited until he was older before divorcing Ansara.
âBut then I remind myself that so many kids from divorced homes donât become addicts,â she added. âHe won a lot of battles. But he lost his personal war.â
Matthew was laid to rest beside his father, Michael Ansara, who passed away in 2013 from complications related to Alzheimerâs. Both are buried at Forest Lawn Memorial Park in Los Angeles.
Barbara Edenâs Life Today
Eden has since retired Jeannieâs iconic pink harem suit, but she remains active in entertainment. She has appeared on TV shows like Worst Cooks in America: Celebrity Edition and played Mrs. Claus in the 2019 holiday film My Adventures with Santa. Her last stage production was Love Letters in 2019.
At 92, Eden continues to be an inspiration to fans around the world. She has faced unimaginable loss, yet she remains a symbol of grace, resilience, and timeless beauty.
On this special occasion, we want to wish Barbara Eden a very happy birthday!
And for anyone struggling with addiction or who knows someone who is, help is available. Please reach out to your local substance abuse hotlineâit could save a life.
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